A common misconception is that half of all marriages end in divorce. Modern divorce statistics indicate that a quarter of marriages may end in divorce. Despite the change in statistics, the reasons for divorce have not changed much in recent decades.
There are a few common reasons why couples seek divorce.
1. Infidelity
Infidelity is a leading cause of divorce. Everything from one-night stands to long-term affairs can lead to the end of a marriage.
2. Money
Financial disagreements are difficult for any couple and arguments about money can test the fiber of a marriage. If the two parties do not share a similar philosophy in money management, it can make the marriage a challenge.
3. Life changes
Especially for couples that marry young, the changes that occur with different life stages can strain a marriage. Couples often “grow apart” and seek divorce as a result.
4. Communication failures
Communication is important in any relationship, but especially in a marriage. When couples do not communicate, it leads to distance and resentment that often ends in divorce.
5. Addiction
Substance abuse is a rampant problem throughout society and it can be destructive to a marriage. Protecting yourself and your children is the priority in these situations.
Marriage is a commitment and it requires effort to make it work. Sometimes, even conscious effort and a desire to stay together is insufficient. When you face insurmountable challenges, divorce is sometimes the best solution for both parties. Your well-being is important, even if it means that you need to separate from your spouse.
